self-pity
noun /ˌself ˈpɪti/
  /ˌself ˈpɪti/
 [uncountable] (often disapproving)- a feeling of sadness for yourself, especially because of something unpleasant or unfair that has happened to you
- She's not someone who likes to wallow in self-pity.
 - tears of self-pity
 - A wave of self-pity came over him.
 
Oxford Collocations Dictionary… of self-pity- wave
 
- wallow in
 
- full of self-pity
 - tears of self-pity