know where you are with

know where (one) is with (someone or something)

1. To know how one is regarded or perceived by someone. I think I did well in the interview, but I wish I knew where I was with the recruiter.2. To know one's position or views on some topic. I'm opposed to this measure, but does anyone know where the boss is with it?See also: know

know where you are (or stand) with

know how you are regarded by someone; know the opinions of someone on an issue. 1991 Julian Barnes Talking It Over Good old Stuart, he's so reliable. You know where you are with Stuart . See also: know