somebody can’t abide somebody/something
From Longman Dictionary of Contemporary Englishsomebody can’t abide somebody/somethingsomebody can’t abide somebody/somethingSTAND/BEARused to say that someone dislikes someone or something very much I can’t abide that man – he’s so self-satisfied. → abideExamples from the Corpussomebody can’t abide somebody/something• I can't abide the idea of them getting married.